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Asha Marie's avatar

“endurance is rarely a solitary achievement” yes & next year in the PhD will definitely not be gentler but people may still be kinder

tòlú Daniel's avatar

This is the hope always. And may the new year be kinder to you as well Asha 💜.

Sara's avatar

What a gorgeous meditation on 2025, the writerly life, the power of community, and what it feels like to be working toward a big idea in a PhD program. I will share this with PhD mentees! Thank you, Tolu.

ariana benson's avatar

“We lean on each other quietly, sometimes without names for what we are offering.” Beautifully said, dear writer—as is the entire piece.

tòlú Daniel's avatar

Thanks for reading Ariana

Jeannette Cooperman's avatar

This is absolutely beautiful. Precise, crystalline, deeply felt and specific, yet applicable to so so many challenges. To stay in relation, not harden or brace... to take shelter without hiding forever... I will be rereading this as needed!

tòlú Daniel's avatar

Thank you Jeannette 😊